Shades of Motherhood Network: How Black families evolved in America through the century

Leola Rouse
By Leola Rouse The Black Lens

Black families have stood at the gateway of unimaginable forces – the societal pressures, systemic racism and public attitudes designed to strip them of their dignity and wreak havoc from within. But through it all, they have endured – forging a legacy of resilience that embodies not only their struggle but the very heart of America.

This essay takes you deep into the evolution of Black families in the last century – a sensory history filled with sound, sight and spirit. We’ll learn how these families coped with enslavement, economic exploitation and disenfranchisement while creating communities centered on love, culture and resistance.

The Historical Context

To grasp the contemporary Black family experience, we need to rewind and return to its roots – to the horrific institution of enslavement. Enslaved Africans were uprooted from their homelands, robbed of their identities and thrust into a foreign world that tried to treat them like less than human. Families were torn asunder on auction blocks, with children sold away from parents, husbands sold away from wives. But even in such destruction, connections were forged. Slave quarters were sanctuaries, places where love was nurtured, customs handed down and survival techniques taught. These founding Black families set the stage for a legacy of resilience.

Reconstruction revived hopes. After emancipation, it brought little relief. Economic exploitation continued to be rampant, and Jim Crow laws enforced segregation, ensuring that Black families stayed on the margins. During this period, scientific inquiry emerges, often in the hands of white scholars who reproduce stigmatizing narratives. They described Black families as “broken” or “weak,” denying the systemic barriers that hampered their progress. Black scholars rose up in the meantime, using research to show the strengths and adaptability of Black families. Historical Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs) were also incubators, where daring studies were undertaken, contesting the dominant narrative, providing alternative explanations.

Another turning point was the Great Migration. From 1916 to 1970, millions of African Americans moved from the rural South to urban centers in the North and West, looking for better opportunities and fleeing racial violence. This mass movement changed the social fabric of Black families, and it came with challenges and new opportunities. Cities provided access to education and jobs but also subjected families to overcrowding, poverty and discrimination. In face of such obstacles, Black families adapted to forge tight-knit communities that emphasized mutual support and cultural preservation.

The Power of Music and Art to Empower

If you’ve ever paid close attention to the haunting melodies embedded in the spirituals sung by enslaved ancestors, you understand there’s more than music in those notes – it’s a language of liberation, a call for freedom. To Black families, music has always meant something deeper than just entertainment; it’s been a lifeline. Spirituals expressed despair and hope during slavery, encoded escape plans along the Underground Railroad. As time marched on, jazz, blues, R&B and hip-hop all came along, each carrying the torch for storytelling and protest.

Take the blues, for example. Hailing from the Mississippi Delta it expressed the plight of sharecroppers and laborers, turning pain into beauty. Or think about hip-hop, which ascended in the second half of the 20th century, providing disenfranchised youths with a voice to speak truth to power. Hits like Kendrick Lamar’s “Alright” or Beyoncé’s “Formation” are more than music – they’re slogans for justice, a deep well of defiance in line with what we heard in slave spirituals generations ago.

Art has also played a crucial role in crafting Black identity. Artists like Aaron Douglas and writers like Langston Hughes celebrated Black culture in the 1920s Harlem Renaissance in ways that unmasked it from racist caricature. Today artists such as Kehinde Wiley and Kara Walker carry on that legacy, using their art to subvert oppressive standards and elevate the voices of Black people. As a combined creative force, music and art empower, inspire Black families with a reminder of who they are and what they came from while encouraging that for the next generation.

Stereotypes

For decades, countless damaging stereotypes have defined the families of Black people in academia and media. Historically, white scholars told a narrative of Black families that centered on dysfunction, emphasizing the prevalence of either single parent households or absent fathers without paying much heed to the historical patterns of structural inequality. Such narratives moved away from examinations of redlining, underfunded schools and mass incarceration – realities that disproportionately impacted Black communities.

But there still exists within these families great wealth – not financial, but emotional, cultural and communally. Bonds formed in relation to shared struggle are the ones that also form networks of support that sustain whole communities. There’s the practice of “kinship care,” when family members take over raising children when parents can’t. Such a practice is a commitment to collective well-being that stands in stark contrast to the individualist ideals often celebrated in mainstream society.

Healing starts when we see the humanity behind these numbers. We must avoid weak band-blue programs that do not address the deepening of the wound inflicted on Black families to repair. Restoration involves healing wounds within – of intergenerational trauma, self-doubt and fear – which lead the forming of self-awareness, compassion and resilience. When people get better, their families get better, and then the community at large gets better.

Civil Rights to Black Lives Matter

The path of Black families in America has been inseparable from the movements that sought to uplift them. The civil rights movement of the 1950s and ’60s is one of history’s great examples of the power of collective action. Iconic figures Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks and countless nameless heroes fought suffocatingly hard to break down segregation and achieve voting rights. Their work led to landmark laws including the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the Voting Rights Act of 1965 that opened up doors of opportunity previously closed to Black families.

Move forward to the 21st century and we have the emergence of movements like Black Lives Matter (BLM). Fueled by the 2012 killing of Trayvon Martin, and gaining steam over the deaths of Michael Brown, Breonna Taylor and George Floyd, BLM was a new wave of activism focused on fighting police brutality and systemic racism. BLM’s focus on intersectionality is what makes it so different; the forward movement recognizes that Black families experience layers upon layers of oppression – as victims of their race, gender, sexuality, and class.

These eruptions serve to remind us of an important fact: progress is not linear. Though there has been considerable progress, the battle still rages on for equality. Generation upon generation receives the uncompleted work left to them by their predecessors, and pass it on, hands grasped on that torch to be carried elsewhere.

Final Thoughts

For the future, there is one thing that is clear, we must allow the voices of Black families to drive the conversation.” Too often, research and policy-making have been done to, rather than with, those most impacted, based on external interpretations that fall short. Collaborative approaches are critical and should involve Black communities as equal participants in the process. By focusing on their experiences and priorities, we can develop solutions that genuinely meet their needs.

Furthermore, our knowledge of Black families should reflect their diversity. Not all Black families are alike, and not all face the same challenges. Some are headed by single mothers, others by two-parent families; some live in cities, others in the country. Socioeconomic conditions vary widely, and so do cultural backgrounds. Acknowledging this complexity also allows us to celebrate the unique strengths present in each family structure while tackling the systemic risks they face.