As Mother’s Day approaches, it is essential to honor and celebrate the contributions of Black mothers today and throughout history. Black motherhood has long been a cornerstone of strength, sacrifice, and love.
From recognized figures like Coretta Scott King who led other Black mothers and their families in the inaugural march for the Poor People’s Party on March 12, 1968, just one month after her husband, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated. Mrs. King was not only a mother to their four children, but a staunch advocate for civil rights and social justice, despite the risk and ultimate loss to her family. To Mamie Till-Mobley who made the decision to reveal her son Emmett Till’s mutilated body through an open-casket funeral in a defiant act that shook the nation’s conscience. By allowing the world to witness the brutality inflicted upon her son, Mamie catalyzed the civil rights movement, forcing people to confront the horrors of racism. Through their unwavering courage, these women transformed personal grief into a powerful force for social change, leaving an indelible mark on history and inspiring future generations to confront injustice with unwavering resolve.
The role of Black mothers in raising others children, particularly white children during slavery, had profound and enduring impacts on Black families and communities. Enslaved Black women were often forced to care for the children of their white enslavers, serving as wet nurses, nannies, and caregivers. This practice not only separated Black mothers from their own children but also subjected them to physical, emotional, and psychological exploitation. Forced to prioritize the needs of white children over their own families, Black mothers experienced profound trauma and loss, which has had generational implications.
Throughout history, Black mothers demonstrated remarkable strength and love in the face of unimaginable adversity. The manipulation of Black mothers as caregivers perpetuated a narrative of Black inferiority and servitude, reinforcing dehumanizing ideologies, which contributed to the erasure of Black motherhood from dominant narratives of caregiving and maternal love. Despite their sacrificial labor and unwavering dedication, Black mothers were often marginalized and devalued, their contributions overshadowed by pervasive racism.
Despite systemic injustices, Black mothers have found ways to nurture and protect their own families, instilling values of resilience, resourcefulness and dignity in future generations. Let us remember and celebrate the remarkable contributions of Black mothers, today and every day.
Here are some ways to commemorate this day:
1. Acknowledge Black Mothers: Whether it’s a family member, friend, or community leader, let them know how much they are loved and valued and that you appreciate their dedication, sacrifice and unique experiences.
2. Get Educated About Experiences: Take the time to educate yourself about the experiences and contributions of Black mothers throughout history. Read books, watch documentaries, or attend events that highlight their stories, sacrifices and achievements.
3. Give Back to Community: Honor the spirit of activism and advocacy embodied by Black mothers by volunteering or supporting organizations that work towards social justice and equality, particularly around the Black maternal health crisis, our youth and the poor.
Above all, take the time to celebrate the love and devotion that Black mothers provide to their families and communities.